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What makes for great rapport building? Plus, a list of rapport building questions

3/14/2017

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Connecting with a donor or potential donor is so vital before you ask for a gift. It's like removing many of the roadblocks between you and that "YES!" response you want.

People want to give to people they like. It's not much of a secret. Ultimately, as a fundraiser you are a conduit for the relationship between that donor and the institution (not with you personally) but they must enjoy speaking with you to want to continue a relationship with the institution.

This is an important skill for any fundraiser to develop, from phonathon callers on up to executive directors, deans and development officers.

I have been to MANY call centers where they use the same tired rapport-building questions year after year after year. We cannot let this happen. No one wants to spend their precious time telling a new person why they haven't been back to campus lately just like they did last year.

Bad rapport-building has the opposite effect on the donor than that which we wish to cultivate.

The first rule of building rapport is it must be DIALOG not MONOLOGUE. You must ask questions that will solicit meaningful conversation and back and forth. You (no matter if you are a student caller or the Vice President of Advancement) must not deliver a litany of great-stuff-happening-at-our-institution without stopping for breath.

So, following this rule, we must construct meaningful rapport building questions.

The second rule about rapport building is that these questions get stale. Every year (at least) new rapport builders should be generated and put into rotation.

Here is some guiding criteria for generating these questions. Rapport building questions should:
  • Extract meaningful information (like employment and campus affinities).
  • Make the prospect like the caller/staffer as quickly as possible.
  • Be delivered in a genuine way.
  • Not be able to be answered with “Yes” or “No”.
  • Not merely deliver talking points about the college or university.
  • Provide opportunities for smooth transitions to the first ask.
  • Collect new demographic information about prospects and verify current info (but not in a “canned” or perfunctory way).

What are some examples of strong rapport-building questions?
  • Were you close to any faculty members while you earned your degree?
  • Are working in the same field in which you earned your degree?
  • Did you know that the <> recently <>? Isn't that great?
  • I thought you might like to know that we've had a lot of success in <>. What do think about that?
  • I see that you attended our recent <>. Do you have any feedback for <> about that event that I could pass along?
  • You know, I am not sure about the answer to that question. But I can get back to you if I could get your cell phone number or email. I'll research that and contact you.
  • Why did you make your first gift to <>? What keeps you giving?
  • What are you most passionate about here at <>?
  • I see you are <> as I was/am. That's wonderful to know. Do you know <>?

Does your rapport building need a refresh? Do you have some favorite rapport-building questions that I forgot to mention on my list? Comments and questions are, as always, welcomed and encouraged!

Cheers,
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Jessica Cloud

PS - If you liked this post, you might also like these:
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12/3/2018 05:37:43 am

Thank you for all the tips you had mentioned, I have learned a lot. Building a great rapport is as important as making connections in business. But when it comes to fundraising, it is more important to build a special relationship because people will always desire to help especially if they are given the chance to help! Fundraising events like this will always be stronger if you have people who can surely support a certain cause, and that's possible if you have built a special rapport to people already!

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